Chinese people are very hospitable. The etiquette surrounding inviting people to dinner demonstrates this fact. Friends often have a special place in their hearts for Chinese people. Having dinner with friends is not just about eating. It’s also a great way to strengthen the friendship. After dinner, people usually like to scramble to pay the bill. So, if you come to China, you will certainly receive hospitable treatment from your Chinese friends. Now, here’s some table etiquette you need to pay attention to:
If you come to China for the first time, your friend will certainly hope that you can try many of the special Chinese dishes. You will be treated to some delicacies. To be polite, you need to have at least a taste of each dish.
Unlike in western countries, each dish in China is often placed on a big plate and is eaten communally, or family style. Culture also dictates the order the dishes are served in: cold dishes come first, then hot dishes, which include a variety of vegetables and meat, the staple food, and finally, the soup comes last. When having dinner, your friends may serve you food to show their hospitality. You should accept this offer out of politeness, but if you are not used to it, you can always say, “Thank you. I will take care of it myself.”
Here is another very important point: when you put down your chopsticks, don’t put them on the bowl or stick them into the bowl, as this is believed to be unlucky. Just put them on the table. And, if you are full, do remember to tell your friends, “I am really full.” Otherwise, they will try to persuade you to keep eating.